What atheism doesn't have is dogmatic and prescriptive hate. We do not have a dogma telling us we must hate this group of people or that group of people. Now, individual atheists may take on their own particular views and some may be quite angry. I have my moments, just like anyone else, but none of those are prescribed specifically by atheism. Atheism does not prescribe.
A pro-science philosophical skeptic, promoting unlimited scope of inquiry.
Skepticism - atheism - philosophy - science - and sometimes, gaming.
"It is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring."
- Carl Sagan, "The Demon Haunted World"
Sunday, May 1, 2022
Atheism & Hate
Sunday, March 13, 2022
Religious Rites and Rituals
I don't celebrate holidays, nor do I take part in the them. This has been a source of consternation to some people around me for most of my life. They just don't understand and they wonder what is wrong with me. Even among skeptics and atheists, people still celebrate holidays, renaming them or attempting to assimilate them or even just simply trying to ignore the religious aspect of them. Excuses, excuses.
I have a profound respect for the power of symbols (which is not the same thing as a respect for specific symbols). My experience is that they turn on you. I wore a pigasus for a while until I discovered the organization it represented didn't have the courage of its convictions.
Following is a retelling of the moment I went from atheist to anti-theist, on a very personal level. Perhaps it will help shed some light on my views on holidays for anyone who might be interested. I wrote this for a board I participate in. I have toned down my description of the priest in the story for delicate ears (yes, this is toned-down).
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Actually, the last time I was in a church (Church of England) for a wedding really opened my eyes. Up to that point, I had pretty much gotten the academic side of things down, was a public atheist, etc., but I didn't have that sense of understanding, on a very personal level, about how virulent religion really is. I was an "each his or her own way" kinda person. I kept things, more or less, to myself.
The priest used their wedding as an excuse to put forward a "there is an atheist in the crowd" rant, and I saw red - not so much because I perceived myself as the target of the attack, but because this twisted little parasitic homunculus had the temerity to assume the right to abuse the wedding of some of my loved ones to attack one or more persons in the crowd. I realized at that moment that this [person] was in the business of annexing our humanity and wielding it against us. What was supposed to be a celebration of two people's love became a mere opportunity to push an agenda for this piece of parasitic detritus. There are very few times in my life I can claim to have seen red. That was one of them. That moment was when I went from atheist to anti-theist. I decided I would never permit one of these monsters to have any claim on me.
I didn't say anything then. I was desperately trying to think of my uncle and his new bride, seething at the realization that the priest was using that I was doing so for his twisted little purposes.
I dropped all religious celebrations that day. I'm not saying anything to anyone else about what they should or should not do. Your life; your business; your call, but I will not allow religion any claim on my humanity, not in any way, shape or form, ever again. I will not hold my tongue ever again. It is probably better for anyone else that I never enter a church again.
If that makes me a "dick," then so be it. I will still not tell you what you should do. Extend the same courtesy to me, please. If you can't, brace for impact...
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This turned religious dogma from an academic exercise into a vivid personal prescriptive force, virulently wielded. It exposed the vicious nature of the deeply abusive relationship between belief and believer and the parasites that (I can't say "who") use it to steal free room and board and spread hate and malice.
Some have tried to find ways to work around the religious content of holidays on my behalf, and I thank them for their efforts, but I just can't stomach the poison...
A Buffet of Ideas
Most modern christians feel they can dismiss the Old Testament out of hand and the New Testament is supposed to represent some kind of new deal with god. But none of that jazz alters the fact that the primary function of the monotheisitc religions is to provide a basis for absolute objective morality. Once they compromise the integrity of the absolute, it is not an absolute anymore. When they dismiss this moral truth or that moral truth in favour of this new moral truth or that new moral truth (which contradicts the old ones, of course) they are engaging in dishonest moral relativism games, which undercuts their entire mentality. The instant one of them starts yapping about "social context" or the "context of the times" they make themselves into extreme fools because at that point their supposed trump question, "Where do you get your morals from?" can be wielded against them with, actually, more force than it was ever wielded against real relativists, since most real relativists don't make claims to absolute moral truths.
Even that aside, however, some stories are fundaments of the mentality involved with religious dogma. Let's take the story of Abraham and Isaac. The particulars of the story are really irrelevant; what matters is the subjugation of humanity in favour of a philosophy (sacrificing our humanity for God). If they wish to write off the Old Testament, then that story gets written off as well, but they cannot afford that. They must keep that story or else humanity takes precedence again. So they waffle - "Oh, the sacrifice never really took place, so...." Yes, it did actually, the moment Abraham decided to conduct the sacrifice. The intent to subjugate his humanity for God was the real crime of that story, not whether Isaac was actually killed or not. The story of Abraham is about setting priorities. God above humanity, even one's own children. If they toss that story out, their God gets superceded. Can't have that, now can they?
And that, boys and girls, is the true "evil" of christianity, indeed all three of the monotheistic horrors (and possibly of all religions) - they all prescribe surrendering our humanity to a mere philosophy (it can be a "who," a "way'" or an "understanding"). It is the most fundamental betrayal imaginable, sacrificing your own children - physically, intellectually or emotionally. And if the word "evil" means anything in the real world, there is no conceivable anything more evil than this, which is at the heart of all prescriptivity. That is the crime from which all other religious violence and crime arises - the understanding that we serve as cogs in a dogmatic meat grinder. That is the true root of all evil.
Even so...
The superficial content of the religious works are only part of the story. The dynamics (underlying assumptions and prescriptive force) of religious philosophy itself inherently lead to violence.
Let me give a related analogy. Western societies are built on the idea of change, not only scientific, but social, moral, attitudinal and otherwise. The structure of the society is such that it incorporates change in its everyday function. Courts take input from juries, political policies are determined by voters, etc. The result, just as one would expect, is change.
Theocracy-based societies are built on the denial of change, at their fundaments. Believing they already know the Truth(TM)*, change can only be evil. Perfectly reasonable, if one thinks one knows the Truth(TM), and in a static environment. The result, just as one would expect, is stagnation.
These are not so much expressly stated as implied in the policies, such as means of arbitration and, for example, the legality of blasphemy.
As long as we only talk about the obvious negative (or positive) events in the religious texts, we are only observing the symptoms. The sickness runs much deeper and is systemic on a philosophical level. The primacy of God over humanity is at the core of the monotheistic understanding. That is the meaning of the story of Abraham's willingness to sacrifice his son. In such a view all human concerns, including such trivial things as considerations of suffering or life-span (and the role of the caregiver of children) are necessarily downplayed or redefined such that humanity is expendable in the name of the idea. That is, necessarily, a violent understanding since any and all means are rendered acceptable to the maintenance of the faith. Now, if the faith is evangelical in nature, and God has primacy over humanity, then any and all means are acceptable to the spreading of the faith. The inevitable result is violence.
What most people fail to recognize, is that the horrors or the Bible, Old Testament and New Testament (and the other "revisions" for the other two monotheism) are supposed to be "Good" things on an underlying level, as they are expressions of something beyond their mere trivial example. That is what it is for a story to have a meaning. Well, just as coughing, phlegm and back pain can be symptoms of the lungs filling up with fluid, so too a willingness to adopt just about any means and methods of maintaining and spreading the faith are symptoms of something as well - namely of a philosophy that dehumanizes and trivializes us and turns us into expendable cogs in a dogmatic machine.
Ever read any Rapture Ready stuff? For them, the wholesale slaughter of all humanity is a "Good Thing(TM)." (They, of course, would not use that wording.) These are sick, sick people, but their sickness is not something merely alien and strange - it is a natural result of a deeply held conviction that our lives are trivial, indeed meaningless, in the face of some greater ideal. It is a prescribed sickness, actively promoted by the dogma. The Rapture Ready people are just a few openly expressing the sickness.
* (TM) = Trade Mark - a way of painting how ridiculous the idea of absolute morals is.
Sunday, April 18, 2021
The Value of Philosophy
Philosophical Inquiry
I see philosophy as the primordial soup from which ideas arise. Some are good, some are bad, some are merely laughable. But it is all worth it for the few good ideas that arise.
Fortresses of Nonsense
Wednesday, March 31, 2021
Atheism, Advocacy, and Skepticism
On Describing Atheism as a Faith, Advocacy as Evangelism and Skepticism as Fundamentalism
There is mistaken perception (I'll say "perception" rather than "delusion" out of politeness) among the religious that all ideas are equal - rest on an equal footing - that there is nothing to choose between ideas at the most basic level. In their minds, all ideas are affirmations, made despite epistemic nihilism, and supported only by faith. Hence, we get the claim that atheism is just another faith.
In order to try to bring all ideas down to their level, the religious will often refer to characteristics of other views in their terms, terms like "fundamentalism" or "evangelical" or "zeal." These terms traditionally have a particular religious content involved in their use. The goal is to present any idea as just another baseless competing ideology.
This is not the case. All ideas do not suffer the same weaknesses as dogmatic religion. There are approaches to the challenge posed by epistemic nihilism that do not just assume as true in the form of an affirmation. Instead they posit provisionally. This is important in that it is subject to correction as the need arises, rather than subject to orthodoxy requirements like affirmations are.
There are two possible responses to epistemic nihilism:
(1) do not accept that we do not "know."
(2) accept that we do not "know."
Human history has been of trying to desperately avoid accepting that we do not know with certainty. This has been a fool's game and has had tragic results, as orthodoxy has been traditionally enforced by the sword. In order to deny accepting that we do not "know," various campaigns of rhetoric have been conducted to paint the acceptance of not "knowing" as irrational, or contradictory or even just with negative connotations.
However, if we accept that we do not know, then we can take a different approach. At the heart of epistemic nihilism we find ourselves presented with a question: What now? Do we:
(1) Curl up in a fetal ball and die?
(2) Affirm truths without basis?
(3) Posit provisionally and see what happens?
Some think that 2 and 3 are the same. They are not, as I indicated earlier, precisely because 3 is provisional and subject to correction, while 2 is not.
In order for an idea or philosophy to posit provisionally, it must call itself into question without negating itself. The reason it must do this is because, if it holds any ideas as "sacred cows" (with apologies to DJ), then it has effectively become an affirmation. A tall order, but it just so happens we have such a philosophy - the only one of its kind: skepticism. And it just so happens that a methodology based on calling itself into question (error-correction) and eschewing certainty exists as well: science - and science is ridiculously effective.
The religious (and dogmatic "scientific skeptics") would have us believe that skepticism contradicts itself. If you are skeptical of skepticism then you have negated skepticism, right? Wrong. Doubt is not denial. (We can get deeper into that later perhaps). So let's ask ourselves what happens if we subject skepticism to skeptical inquiry. We find ourselves in a state of uncertainty, a state of doubt - and this persist through as many meta-levels of skeptical inquiry as you care to conduct. At every level we are left in a state of non-assent - which *IS* skepticism. In this way, skepticism critiques itself while resulting in skepticism. No sacred cows; even the most basic ideas are subjected to critical inquiry.
And this is where the distinction between a critique-based philosophy and an affirmation-based one comes into play. Skepticism does not assume itself as an affirmation. It is the result of critical inquiry, and that is different in kind from affirmation-based philosophies (like religions).
And this is part of the reason the religious want to paint all ideas in their terms - to hide the essential error of presuming that skepticism negates itself - that critical inquiry negates critical inquiry. To affirm affirmation. To make the idea of sacred cows itself a sacred cow. To pretend we "know" when we don't. This is why they try to refer to atheism as a faith, all advocacy as evangelism and basic ideas as fundaments (hence fundamentalism). They simply cannot conceive of such a thing as a critique-based approach - it's been socialized and internalized out of them by a lifetime of conditioning. They've been indoctrinated into a terror of "not knowing." Hence we hear derision of people who say, quite properly, "I don't know," as if even admitting lack of knowledge is some sort of weakness of character somehow, rather than just being honest.
All ideas are not created equal, nor are they held equally - and how they are held (as truths or as provisional) matters. It influences how one approaches information and the ability (or inability) to revise information. Provisional holding of information allows for error-correction. Holding information as truth does not.
Philosophical skeptics, like myself, are doing something radically different than what the religious do, and painting me with those sorry terms to try to disguise or hide that is worse than disingenuous - it is an outright lie.
Sunday, July 26, 2020
Dogmatic Sociopathy
What a Virus Wants
There is a danger in talking about what the virus "wants." It's a virus. It doesn't want. It has no volition. And most importantly, it is not political. It doesn't care what party you support. It is a virus. It cannot care.
Anti-Mask Hysteria
It is time to stop playing nicely with and appealing to the humanity of sociopaths. If they are so fucking stupid that they demand a police state. As long as they threaten the lives of others, make their dystopian dreams come true.
Skepticism vs Denialism
We are now seeing the true danger of the "conspiracy theorist" mentality. This is why we need cautious skepticism, not dogma-based denialism. Remember, doubt is not denial.
It's also why we need science. Science informs us, provides us with a course of action - a way to combat something barely within our comprehension. It gives us personal efficacy in a time when we may be otherwise feeling helpless and afraid. Fear is not the way to deal with the virus. Wearing a mask is that effective personal action. Unfortunately, anti-science conspiracy denialism has convinced people to not wear masks - to try to pretend not wearing a mask is a moral or political stance. It is neither of these; it is merely deliberate sociopathic stupidity.
Yes, I used the word "sociopathic." It applies perfectly. These people do not care about the lives of those around them. Some, perhaps, even want to see others die. There are cases of people deliberately coughing in the faces of others (in one instance, a baby's face). This is neither rational, nor even sane. What kind of person do you have to be to deliberately put other people's lives at risk when it is so easy to just wear a mask when out in public? What kind of garbage is in your thought bubble?
Ground Zero
Ground Zero
When it comes to epistemology, what happens to make you reach epistemic ground zero (when you realize that knowledge is, in fact, impossible) is only a small part of the story. It involves some honesty, but otherwise it is not difficult.
Friday, September 20, 2019
Skeptical of Skepticism
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Reclaiming Our Imaginations
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Tuesday, May 28, 2019
Down the Real Rabbit Hole
Tuesday, May 14, 2019
"Everything Is Permitted"
When we speak of "forbidden" or "proscribed" we must also ask "by whom?" Who is doing the forbidding/proscribing? Theists get in a big panic because atheism seems to be removing the ultimate forbidder/proscriber and in a sense that is true..., but it is only true of a vision of morality that requires some... ultimate forbidder/proscriber.
There are other visions of morality that do have those who do forbid/proscribe - indeed offer most, if not all, of the definitive qualities associated with morality. Secular morality sees morality as a human social enterprise, of humans, by humans and for humans. So, when we ask, "Forbidden by whom?" those who posit secular morality, without god, have a ready answer: everyone else.
So, no, atheism is not an excuse to do the forbidden. It is a reason to become more sophisticated about one's understanding of morality.
When someone asks you, "Was it an AK-47 or a MP5K you used to shoot the victim?" it is perfectly legitimate to say, "Your question is a leading question. I shot no one with anything, much less with one of two particular weapons."
When someone asks "What is the ultimate source of morality without god?" it is perfectly legitimate to say, "Your question is a leading question. It assumes morality must have an ultimate source. I can account for all the necessary features of morality without an ultimate source."
Morality is a tool for helping people live together in a social context. In many ways religion is anti-moral, since it relies on conflict against "the other" to polarize its populace into not living with others or sharing a social context with them.
Sunday, May 12, 2019
The Seeming Good Intentions
I have lived under the threat of the bomb all of my life and so have you. All it takes is one believer with their hands on the political football, lost in their grotesque high-mindedness, to make all of everyone's deliberations meaningless...
This cannot be stressed enough. All our lives are on the line!
Regressing Our Way to the Next Inflexible Dogma ...
Friday, December 14, 2018
Bidding Holy Days Good-Riddance
Wednesday, December 5, 2018
On Agnosticism and Dogmatic Atheism.
Agnosticism
Agnosticism is merely skepticism about one particular concept.
Polarization
Polarization is the theme of the moment in our culture. Calm, rational, critical thought is falling aside in the face of the screaming. Atheists are not immune to its twisted allure, it seems.
One of the sad things is it's almost an inevitable outcome. Religious people proclaim their "certainty" at the top of their lungs and with absolute confidence, and many atheists feel the need to do the same just to be heard. That's part of how theists "win." To fight them we risk becoming them, unless we are very, very careful. What was that quote about battling not with monsters again...?
Sunday, December 2, 2018
Reclaim Our Humanity
Tuesday, November 27, 2018
Steps to Becoming Anti-Dogma
Now, please understand that these are not commands. I am not trying to proselytize here. It's is merely one route upon many possible ones, and my steps reflect , in part, my journey through philosophy as well as as a skeptic.
Move away from your religion. See the bullshit for what it is - become, through one or more phases, an atheist. It's OK to use a different word for it. Don't let anyone define you for you.
Recognize the harm of your religion. Be careful, this part is fraught with possible error. There will be a real temptation to entertain the notion that minorities can do no wrong, and so support other, minority, religions regardless of that religion's content. Millennials get caught on this one all the time, it seems. Of course the newer not-necessarily religious ideologies are pushing this craziness.
Recognize the harm common to all religions (become an anti-theist). Yes, this is the definition of an anti-theist. It's not about being anti theists, despite the wails of the people who oppose you. Instead, understand that they are victims of indoctrination and/or brainwashing.
Start digging deeper (intense skeptical inquiry), until you hit the prime content of any religion, which is to subjugate humans beneath dogma, beneath a narrative. The primary weapon for this is prescriptive normative "morality," which has no basis.
Proceed through the nihilist phase until you realize that you are still defining things as the religious want you to. Leave the religious definitions in the dust. Start learning and developing more human centered definitions, and leave nihilism in the dust of learned, necessary transitions, and overcome experiences.
Start exploring all the new potentials and possibilities of life post-dogma.
Friday, November 23, 2018
Building Our Understandings
(On Something Other than Religious Dogma)
"How Does an Atheist Not Become a Sociopath?"
Please accept my apologies for the length of this. I have broken it up into rough sections to help with that. Please consider this essay a work in progress. There is much organizing and fleshing out to be done, but here are some beginnings to a secular morality.
Root of All Evil
Unlike some, I do think religion is the root of all evil, if "evil" can be said to mean anything in the real world. Religious moral philosophy, and this is true even outside the trinity of monotheistic holy horrors (the Abrahamic religions), makes basic assumptions about the human animal that not merely jaundice the view of others, but also the view of oneself. Internalizing the idea of humanity as an intrinsically evil monster barely restrained by means of internalized normative chains is about as disgusting an idea (and self-fulfilling a prophesy) as it is possible to conceive. Religions are actually in the business of convincing us that we are evil and need their metaphysical bullshit to avoid becoming raping, thieving, murdering, monsters. They are in the business of creating "evil" persons by emphatically telling us we want to be evil and that we necessarily are evil. If that marketing of concept of self and other hatred isn't "evil," what is?
And this ties in with the supposed "Where do you get your morals from?" critique - as if morality is impossible without religion. Now, given that religious people have been indoctrinated into thinking they are intrinsically evil and so are the rest of us, the "critique" becomes plainly obvious for the error it is. But this is only part of the story...
Extra-Human "Morality"
The religious, especially theistic, concept of morality is, to be perfectly straightforward, alien, bizarre and strange, incoherent and incomprehensible and worst all, perfectly inhuman. perhaps I should back that up...
The one rule from the Old Testament any of the miscellaneous offshoots cannot and will not rid themselves of is the primacy of god. Contrary to common opinion there are some advantages to studying philosophy - here's one of them. It gives on a sense of the history of maelstrom of ideas that humanity has entertained, a kind of time line, and it provides a context for the debates over the overarching conflicts of ideas. One of these is the primacy of god or humanity (god-centered vs human-centered). This is not a debate that started just yesterday afternoon over a Bunsen burner. There is a long tradition and history of god-centered thinking, and the theistic, in their "moral" righteousness, have worked very hard to quell and eradicate human-centered thinking. For the most part they have been successful until the modern era, in which we are seeing humanism rise again.
What does it mean to be god-centered, especially with respect to morality? We often hear phrases like, "There can be no morality without god, or "God IS love," and we think very little about what statements like these imply. What they imply is that we, as humans, have zero capacity for any kind of morality and just to drive the point home, the word morality is defined such that an extra-human agency is required for anything we can call moral to be exhibited. In many cases, religious folks actually conceive of moral agency as god working through a monstrous construct - namely us, as if we are merely conduits of some sort. So, to be god-centered is to dismiss any and all potential for humanity with regards to realms like morality.
So, god is intrinsically moral and humanity is intrinsically non-moral. Given this kind of understanding, we can begin to truly appreciate the force of the "where do you get your morality from?" critique. At the heart of it lies the conditioned assumption that all humanity is, by necessity, intrinsically without morality. Hence, I say "utterly alien and strange" because, according to the god-centered religious view, we, as humans, are innately estranged from morality.
As a side note: I refer to this as alien and strange because not only is the religious concept of morality defined as separate and apart from humanity, but it corresponds with almost no concept of morality as the word is used in natural language. Theologians are speaking a radically different language than the rest of us...
Human Morality
The question is, is it possible to conceive of morality by some understanding other than this alien and strange misanthropic view? Although humanist thinking has been under the sacrificial dagger for millennia, we are beginning to posit alternative understandings. Some are presenting concepts like weak-sympathy based on evolutionary biology, social necessity and other ideas. Some of us are throwing out the idea of intrinsic evil altogether and considering beginning fresh with a pro-human, social growth and learning concept of humanity. Here's a question to consider: if people did not conceive of themselves as innately evil, reveling in evil, desiring to be evil - as religion tells us we are - what kinds of effect would that staggeringly different mindset have on human behaviour. One skeptic has, as a tagline in a signature, "The default position is to punch the other guy in the face and steal his stuff." Now is this necessarily so, or is it a case of it becoming so because we have been convinced it is so? It would seem, on reflection, that pure naivety and pure misanthropy are extremes that may need tempering. Is it possible to account for deviance while still assuming, as a base-line, that deviance is the exception, not the rule? If you think not, then why do you think this?
Accounting for Deviance
Let's take the worst possible secular case - let's assume for the moment that we are nasty and brutish critters in need of controls on our behaviour. We can institute various means of instituting controls and they can come in versions that needn't be religious or non-secular. Social norms backed by rule of law are serviceable secular bases for moral understanding (assuming one does not specifically define morality beyond that realm) in that they provide reference beyond oneself. The primary traditionally understood functions of morality, prescriptivity and universalizability, are accounted for.
External Referents
Now this, it seems to me is critical; the idea that morality be a reference to something beyond the self. On this the religious and I seem to agree, but usually only in appearance. I say this because an understanding of morality that posits a source that is unverifiable and known only through revelation or, worse, subject to the whims of individual conscience, is to effectively deny external referent. It places morality entirely within a private mental realms, with only the illusion of external reference. In this way, the religious are actually guilty of the "flaw" they accuse atheists of! Really. We aren't the necessary sociopaths - they are, because their external referent is not an external referent at all.
Evaluating God
A local philosopher pointed out something interesting at the last freethinkers meet-up here in Saskatoon. If one cherry-picks from the Bible, one is not, in fact submitting to a higher moral authority, but one is, instead, actually referring to one's own moral standards to evaluate the Bible's content. Seems an "interesting and contradictory use" of an absolute moral external referent, doesn't it? Think about that for a moment...
The "where do you get your morality from?" critique actually has much of its force in being an accusation that atheists are refusing to look beyond themselves for their idea of morality. Now, first we must concede that it is possible to look beyond the self for a source of morality - even the religious must accept that or their idea of god qua moral source is meaningless. Can it be done in a non-religious way? Are there possible external sources of morality beyond the self that do not involve god? Why, yes, of course, there are, even if they are not absolutist. We are raised in a context of social norms which serve almost perfectly well as a moral realm. The definition of self, itself, is a very secular function.
So, Morality From Where?
So, to answer the question, I respond "From the people around me and the negotiated social context I live and participate in. Because, you see, to disregard the people around me and my social context, is to remove humanity and/or external referents from consideration, and if anything is to be considered sociopathic, surely it is removing human considerations from our ideas of morality which is precisely what god-centered, religious stipulations of morality do." We speak of human knowledge as growing and developing, in the sciences and in understanding, but not in the realm of morality. We seem to assume that we know the moral truths and that there is no room for growth, nothing we might not understand, that we have access to the Truth (capital T) and that there is absolutely nothing more to be learned. How strange an assumption this is. How else are we going to be able to progress and learn about morality if we cut off negotiations as a matter of absolutist policy? Doesn't it seem more rational to keep the lines of communication open? Is closing off all conversation what is considered the antithesis of sociopathic? How strange a twist in thinking...
Now, let's refer back to the idea of humanity as intrinsically evil monster needing to be controlled. Is it, do you think, more moral for people to hold a morality based on threat of violence or denial of self-interest, or for morality to based in mutual consent in a negotiated social context? Depends upon your definition of morality, I suppose. Still, one cannot be surprised if those advocating absolutism (while effectively making their morality perfectly subjective by means of denying external referents) demand a stipulation of morality that denies negotiation. Is that not practically the definition of sociopathic?
Does this all seem terribly Pollyanna to you, assuming that humans are not innately evil and thinking we might be a kinder, gentler people if we cast away the assumption of intrinsic evil? Well, is it possible that the Pollyanna interpretation is a function of your upbringing? Does it seem odd to suggest that the kind of people we are is greatly influenced by who and what we think we are? Maybe that's a centuries-long, generations-deep history of absolutist indoctrination, institutionalized and all-pervasive talking.
Anything is Permitted
We often hear moral absolutists claim make this claim about secular and /or relativistic morality. I'm sorry - permitted by whom? If we lose the absolute moral guide, then the context and meaning of the question is radically changed. The idea seems to be that without god there is something doing some sort of active permitting, or that there is not anything refusing permission. Consider that for a moment; remember my claim that religious philosophy posits us as intrinsically evil, needing constraint. In this context "permitted" seems to mean "unconstrained." Permission is a social construct, the word loses meaning without a social context. Are the religious really claiming that that without god we don't have a social context anymore? That is absurd in the extreme.
As an aside, anyone who wishes to refute my interpretation of that will likely find themselves confirming my claim previous that the religious are speaking a radically different language than the rest of us. Have fun.
So, even assuming we need constraints, or at the very least need to account for deviance, are we to say there are none without god? Ridiculous. We have societal norms and laws, whole realms of reasonable expectations both of ourselves and of others. Yes, you just read the "Golden Rule" there, although phrased in an analytic ethics kinda way.
How does an atheist not become a sociopath?
An atheist, like anyone else, avoids becoming a sociopath in the same way anyone avoids becoming a sociopath - by engaging and participating in a human social context. I posit that atheists are actually less likely to be sociopaths because they do not have a ready made extra-human moral philosophy with which to discard any mere secular concerns. We (atheists) also need not define humanity as intrinsically evil and need not deny the human meaning of morality in favour of some inherently alien and strange supernatural stipulation.